Thursday, July 12, 2007
Ajmeri Baba's greatest gift to me
It is a difficult task to bring up your kids in a country which is so different from your own culture and values. Though I tried my best to give all our values and culture to my kids, I think I have failed somewhere. Both my kids have grown up to be intelligent and smart, but they don’t respect their parents. They like to do what they think is the best and like to take their own decisions. That pains me sometime, as I can see clearly through my experience that these decisions are not right, and this is not what our culture and values teach, but it is very difficult to explain this to the kids. I recently had a fight with my daughter when I told her that she should not be out with guys till late night, I get worried for her. She simply said that she is matured enough to take care of herself and she is responsible for her own well-being. When I told my son that he should now start looking after my business, he blankly refused it saying he would rather make his own choices and make his life. I don’t understand their attitude. We have given them everything – good education, good upbringing, then what went wrong. Me and my wife talk about it often and feel very sad about it. After a recent disagreement with my kids, I called Baba AJmeri and asked him if he could help my kids to come back to a normal lifestyle. He said he could do it, and he agreed to pray for me. I started seeing changes after 4-5 days itself. After the end of two weeks, my daughter went out on a girlie get-together for the first time – with her friends of our community. My son came to my office and started talking to my staff to find out what all was going on in the business. He found himself a good cubicle and started re-arranging it. Then I knew that he will be here for a long time now. I am the happiest man now. They are shaping up exactly like I wanted them to. They are the best kids. My hard work is paying now. Thank you so much Baba Ajmeri. You have given me the biggest happiness that a man could get. I will never forget that. In your debt always…. Thank you.
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